1. The experience of a happy family The family is the child's dependence. Once the family is shaken, the child will become emotionally unstable, fidgeting, irritable, and even nervous. We should create a harmonious and warm family atmosphere so that children can grow up in a loving and caring environment, so that children can feel what a happy family is and understand the responsibilities of parents. 2. The experience of working independently The child will inevitably encounter difficulties in the first attempt. We should not intervene, let alone do it for him, and let him learn from failure. Only make decisions for him at important moments, but when the child insists on solving it by himself, he might as well make good use of his competitive spirit and give appropriate encouragement. 3. Work experience The way to train a child*** is to assign work to him. We should first consider the child's age, ability, interest and personality, and let him help with housework, but don't force him. While taking responsibilities, children also feel that they are valued, and they will become sensible. 4. The experience of dealing with different opinions When disagreeing with the child, don’t persuade him forcibly. This will only make him resist, and even if he obeys, it will only become superficial. 5. The taste of success after failure. When teaching children to exercise, choose easy-to-master competitive activities so that he will not fail many times. Frustration will make him lose interest; let him feel the success after failure, and he will feel both fun and interesting. It can inspire him to do his best in everything. 6. u200bu200bThe experience of going out for activities Children like to move around. Father is busy with work. In his free time, he should play and exercise more with his children, or go to libraries, museums and other places to broaden his knowledge and let him feel your love. Or take the children to the suburbs during the holiday, soak up fresh air, stretch their muscles and bones, look far, and learn more words at the same time. 7. The experience of emotional expression Everyone has his own temper, so you should not be afraid to vent it in front of your children. Don’t avoid your child when you are sad, and tell the reason when you are angry, so that your child can understand our emotions and at the same time demonstrate ways to vent your emotions. Children see the process of reconciliation after their parents quarrel, experience the resolution of conflicts and the continuous power of love, and also learn the skills of dealing with interpersonal relationships; see their parents crying, and learn how to deal with the emotions of grief; when the child is sad, we are Consolation, let him know that sharing grief can deepen intimacy. 8. Parents’ experience of decent quarrels When couples quarrel, they must have principles. Each time they must have a specific theme, do not turn over old accounts, and clearly state their requirements. Although decent quarrels are an important social learning opportunity for children, there are some things that should be avoided in front of children: money problems will only make the child uneasy; telling the relatives is not, it will destroy the close relationship between him and family members; the way of raising children , Will make him at a loss. 9. Past experiences of parents When children encounter problems and confide in us, they may wish to tell them frankly about past experiences, frustrations, failures and pains, and lessons learned. There is no need to be afraid of destroying your image in your child's heart. On the contrary, it will make your child understand you better, be inspired, and instill your ideas and values u200bu200binto him. 10. The experience of life and death A child has to go through countless trials, trials, difficulties, setbacks and failures during his growth. Only by overcoming these challenges can he develop into an independent and strong person. If the little animal you raise dies, the child will feel sad, but take the opportunity to make him understand the pain of losing a loved one, and let him know the importance of cherishing life. In daily life, inculcate him with a correct outlook on life, so that he understands the preciousness of life; usually take him in contact with nature, so that he can appreciate the mystery of life.